Monday, July 26, 2010
Chad at the Veritas Teacher Training Conference
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
9:14 PM
Attention parents, homeschoolers, teachers: last chance to enroll for the Veritas Press Teacher Training Conference this Wednesday through Friday. I will be speaking at the conference on Thursday (11:30-12:30 EST) on the subject of "How to Make Your Children Love Stories." Other speakers include Steve Demme (Math-U-See), Brian Godawa (award-winning screenwriter), Douglas Wilson (pastor and author of numerous books), and many more.
Topics include "Making Literature Come Alive," "Can Classical Education Change Culture?" "Juggling the Schedule (Homeschool Wife and Mother)," "A Defense for Biblical Science," "Dad's Role in Education," and many more.
Go to this page for registration details. I assume the audio for all these talks and workshops will be available at some point after the conference, so I will post details on that as soon as I have them. Looks to be a great conference, and I hope many of you can join us.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
The Key, The Captain, and the Corsair
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
6:58 PM
Here's a story I wrote for William last year, when he turned six. Again, the idea here is to cast your children as the heroes in stories, teaching them what goodness, nobility, courage, and so on, really look like. Love to hear any comments or thoughts on this or the other postings this week.
The Key, The Captain, and The Corsair
William Chad Newsom
Written for my son, William Alfred Alexander Newsom,
on the Occasion of His Sixth Birthday
This is a story that happened when our hero, William, was eight years old. William and his family had taken their vacation that year in the tiny port-town of Trelawney on the North Carolina Coast. Along with the usual beach activities, they were set to visit the Old Pirate Ship, which had been turned into a museum many years before. So William and his parents, his brother and two sisters, along with a camera or two, headed off that Friday morning to visit the Ship.
The Ship was called The Corsair, which as you may know, can mean either ‘pirate,’ or ‘privateer,’ and she was a captured, second-rate “man of war” ship with 90 guns. William loved her at once and couldn’t wait to get onboard.
Just beside the plank walkway that led to the ship, they met the Docent, or tour-guide, who was to take them through to see the sights. His name was James Benbow and he was a kindly, white-haired man of about sixty years of age, dressed in eighteenth-century sailor clothes. He smiled as he greeted them and took them aboard.
As they went along, he told them stories of the ship. The Corsair had been commanded by the famous pirate, Captain Jonas Flintlock (a well-known though underappreciated figure, in the Docent’s view). ‘‘Used to be a preacher in his young days, if you’ll believe me,’ he told them. ‘But God called him to take the good word to the Chinese, and he wouldn’t have anything to do with them at any price, no one knows why. The Captain was a most gentlemanly pirate, kind and considerate, even to those he plundered, though he could be fearsome enough in battle. Indeed, he often pretended to be a privateer, on the lookout for enemy ships, sailing for the King of England. Before we begin, let me also tell you something that you may or may not know. Today marks the two hundred and eleventh anniversary of the capture of The Corsair and the death of Captain Flintlock. Now, ladies and gentleman, we will begin our tour of the ship. And when we get back outside, I’ll have a question to ask you about Captain Flintlock, and if anyone answers it right, they’ll be awarded a very special prize.’
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Another Birthday Poem
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
7:15 PM
Continuing with posting things I've written for William (whose birthday was yesterday, you'll recall), here's a poem I wrote for William two years ago, when he turned five. His mother put on a "Robin Hood" themed birthday party for him; thus the subject matter of this poem. If you read yesterday's poem, you will note, after reading this one, a theme of nobility running through them. My heart's desire is that my children will be noble - by which I mean godly, Christlike, honorable, chivalrous, brave - now, not just when they grow up. It seems we always expect kids to be bad, but hope they'll grow up to be good. Then we're surprised when they don't.
I am nowhere near the father I want to be; I am merely sharing my desires, the things I am aiming for. And what I aim for is children who, young though they be, can withstand such pressures and temptations as their tender ages may encounter. That they will not be deceived by the same foolish lies that other children their age believe; that they will not be enamored of the same pathetic music and pop stars of their peers; that they will be repulsed by the same evils that attract many children of our culture. That they will love with fierce loyalty all that is good, true, and beautiful; and, of necessity, that they will hate all that is evil, false, and ugly. That is the motivation behind my writing for them. In this poem, I hope to provide another hero to inspire William's loyalty: Robin Hood, defender of the weak, loyal to the true king, enemy of the tyrant. These things I want and expect and look for in my children, even now, in their childhood. May God in His kindness grant these things to my family and to yours.
William Hood
A Poem For William on His Fifth Birthday
His King’s away, or so they say,
Yet I am not so sure…
That knight in black—is Richard back
From yon Crusading tour?
But since he left the throne bereft
Of lawful king and lord,
His brother John has set upon
The land with tax and sword.
Now Robin Hood, in green Sherwood,
Has taken vows to save
All poor and cursed—but fight and worst
The tyrant and the knave.
The Church—God’s Truth! he loves, forsooth,
As Friar Tuck has said
(Shalt bid that priest hold rite and feast
His Marian to wed!).
No more depart, great Lion-heart—
Return and hear us sing
Of one so good, our Robin Hood,
So loyal to his King.
A Poem For William on His Fifth Birthday
His King’s away, or so they say,
Yet I am not so sure…
That knight in black—is Richard back
From yon Crusading tour?
But since he left the throne bereft
Of lawful king and lord,
His brother John has set upon
The land with tax and sword.
Now Robin Hood, in green Sherwood,
Has taken vows to save
All poor and cursed—but fight and worst
The tyrant and the knave.
The Church—God’s Truth! he loves, forsooth,
As Friar Tuck has said
(Shalt bid that priest hold rite and feast
His Marian to wed!).
No more depart, great Lion-heart—
Return and hear us sing
Of one so good, our Robin Hood,
So loyal to his King.
***
Your King’s away, or so some say,
But don’t you be so sure!
Do you be good, my William Hood,
Be holy, brave, and pure.
Defend the weak, God’s blessing seek,
And knightly honour win;
Give every breath to fight to death
The tyrannies of sin.
In honour, dare, for Lady Fair,
And never trust to luck;
Your Marian you’ll marry in
The church of Friar Tuck!
With horn and drum, that Day will come—
Your King will reappear
To smite the foe, and overthrow
The overlords of fear.
Be valiant, son, till all is done,
Keep close your bow of wood;
An outlaw in this world of sin,
My noble William Hood.
By Alan-a-Dad
William's Birthday Poem
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
12:08 AM
Today is the seventh birthday of my oldest son, William Alfred Alexander Newsom. Some years back I began a tradition of writing either a poem, song, or story for my wife and children on their birthdays. Throughout this week, I’ll be posting such poems and stories written for William (and maybe for some of the others). We’ll begin with this one, written for William’s seventh birthday today. This one is also for Nathanael, my younger son, who turned four on May 3. We’re doing combined birthday parties: one each year for the girls, one for the boys. So this year I combined Nathanael’s and William’s poems into one for the brothers.
As a side note, I encourage parents (especially Dads) to do something like this. You don’t have to be a great poet (if you read any poetry, you will quickly see that I am not) or storyteller. But just do this: write a simple story, whether in verse or prose, with one or more of your children as the protagonist (hero). Put them in situations in which they must choose to be noble in the face of temptations to do otherwise. You would be surprised how even the simplest tales take on new meaning to your children when they begin to see themselves as characters in the story. This is an important way to build a storytelling culture in your home, and, by doing so, to build character in the lives of your children. In a story-shaped home, the virtues, the fruits of the Spirit that you wish to see them develop will begin to seep into their bones. They will know them: not just the rote knowledge of memorization (important though that is), but a knowledge that is woven into their very souls.
Anyway, happy birthday to my son, William, who is growing into the noble boy I have always dreamed about.
Band of Brothers
A Poem for Nathanael, on the Occasion of His Fourth Birthday (May 3, 2010); and William, on the Occasion of his Seventh Birthday (July 19, 2010)
Given With Love, By Your Father
Nathanael:
Well, here we are, just me and you,
There’s only two of us.
We boys, I mean: there’s only two;
Two brothers: we are small and few;
Whatever can we hope to do?
William:
Now, don’t despair, don’t fuss!
It’s true that we’re not army-size:
We can’t besiege a town.
But like the knight who charges, dies,
With noble luster in his eyes,
That gold and silver never buys;
And takes the foeman down.
So you and I are richly blessed
With courage from our Lord;
I’ve seen you, brother, sorely pressed,
Yet rise with valor, meet the test;
And you and I shall meet this Quest,
Come fire, death, or sword.
Nathanael:
Thanks, brother; now I’m set to try
To take the heights above;
For just two brothers—you and I—
By God’s dear grace may crack the sky;
We may not win but we can die,
To save that which we love.
As Jonathan and his servant went
Against a mighty crew;
So now two brothers have been sent,
To force the wicked to relent;
‘Til all heart-treasures have been spent;
And hearts are piercéd through.
William:
Well said, my brother! Now look to
The sword of steel you wear;
Whatever can we hope to do?
Nathanael:
Nay, here were are, we happy few:
A band of brothers, small, but true;
A noble cross to bear.
Narrator:
Then bursting through the door to Hell,
Where Sorcery held sway,
Two brothers with a mighty yell,
Sent serpents spinning, beasts pell-mell;
And drave the Devil, tales do tell,
And nobly won the day.
Thus set they free their sisters twain,
Who, captured in the wood,
Refused the wizard’s cup to drain;
To keep their hearts from every stain;
And were enchanted for their pain,
For clinging to the Good.
And now the four walked hand in hand,
Walked in the dying gloam;
And knew not all that yet was planned:
Of twinkling stars and grains of sand;
That more would join their little band,
To grace their little home.
A Poem for Nathanael, on the Occasion of His Fourth Birthday (May 3, 2010); and William, on the Occasion of his Seventh Birthday (July 19, 2010)
Given With Love, By Your Father
Nathanael:
Well, here we are, just me and you,
There’s only two of us.
We boys, I mean: there’s only two;
Two brothers: we are small and few;
Whatever can we hope to do?
William:
Now, don’t despair, don’t fuss!
It’s true that we’re not army-size:
We can’t besiege a town.
But like the knight who charges, dies,
With noble luster in his eyes,
That gold and silver never buys;
And takes the foeman down.
So you and I are richly blessed
With courage from our Lord;
I’ve seen you, brother, sorely pressed,
Yet rise with valor, meet the test;
And you and I shall meet this Quest,
Come fire, death, or sword.
Nathanael:
Thanks, brother; now I’m set to try
To take the heights above;
For just two brothers—you and I—
By God’s dear grace may crack the sky;
We may not win but we can die,
To save that which we love.
As Jonathan and his servant went
Against a mighty crew;
So now two brothers have been sent,
To force the wicked to relent;
‘Til all heart-treasures have been spent;
And hearts are piercéd through.
William:
Well said, my brother! Now look to
The sword of steel you wear;
Whatever can we hope to do?
Nathanael:
Nay, here were are, we happy few:
A band of brothers, small, but true;
A noble cross to bear.
Narrator:
Then bursting through the door to Hell,
Where Sorcery held sway,
Two brothers with a mighty yell,
Sent serpents spinning, beasts pell-mell;
And drave the Devil, tales do tell,
And nobly won the day.
Thus set they free their sisters twain,
Who, captured in the wood,
Refused the wizard’s cup to drain;
To keep their hearts from every stain;
And were enchanted for their pain,
For clinging to the Good.
And now the four walked hand in hand,
Walked in the dying gloam;
And knew not all that yet was planned:
Of twinkling stars and grains of sand;
That more would join their little band,
To grace their little home.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Baptism Day
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
9:28 PM
DELMAR: "Me and Pete been baptized and saved."
EVERETT: "Baptism! You two are just dumber than a bag of hammers."
So speaks George Clooney's character Ulysses Everett McGill in the film O Brother, Where Art Thou? But the story proves the wisdom of Pete and Delmar, and the foolishness of Everett. And Everett does get baptized in the end, even if it's rather against his will.
Our culture still scorns Baptism today, laughing at the thought that a bit of water can be in any way significant or efficacious. Today we had the privilege to celebrate two "dumb" baptisms: my nephew Landan, son of my brother Chris and sister-in-law Angie; and Aidan, son of my cousin Stefanie and her husband Doug. Many of you, especially old friends who are reading this on Facebook, will join me in rejoicing over these baptisms, though you may feel a bit strange when I tell you that both of these boys are between the ages of 2 and 5 months old.
I won't use an occasion of great joy to argue against my Baptist brothers and sisters. After all, I grew up Baptist, and have a great deal of love and respect for that noble part of Christendom. I simply offer you a passage of Scripture, and an invitation to discuss this further with any who wish to do so:
"Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. For the promise is unto you, and to your children..." (Acts 2:38-39, emphasis mine).
Blessings to Landan and Aidan on this day, on which God has claimed them as His own. In their baptisms, God the Father, just as He did on the occasion of another baptism, has said, "this is my beloved son...." Blessings to their parents as they begin the work of believing the Father.
EVERETT: "Baptism! You two are just dumber than a bag of hammers."
So speaks George Clooney's character Ulysses Everett McGill in the film O Brother, Where Art Thou? But the story proves the wisdom of Pete and Delmar, and the foolishness of Everett. And Everett does get baptized in the end, even if it's rather against his will.
Our culture still scorns Baptism today, laughing at the thought that a bit of water can be in any way significant or efficacious. Today we had the privilege to celebrate two "dumb" baptisms: my nephew Landan, son of my brother Chris and sister-in-law Angie; and Aidan, son of my cousin Stefanie and her husband Doug. Many of you, especially old friends who are reading this on Facebook, will join me in rejoicing over these baptisms, though you may feel a bit strange when I tell you that both of these boys are between the ages of 2 and 5 months old.
I won't use an occasion of great joy to argue against my Baptist brothers and sisters. After all, I grew up Baptist, and have a great deal of love and respect for that noble part of Christendom. I simply offer you a passage of Scripture, and an invitation to discuss this further with any who wish to do so:
"Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. For the promise is unto you, and to your children..." (Acts 2:38-39, emphasis mine).
Blessings to Landan and Aidan on this day, on which God has claimed them as His own. In their baptisms, God the Father, just as He did on the occasion of another baptism, has said, "this is my beloved son...." Blessings to their parents as they begin the work of believing the Father.
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Something I Need to Remember Every Day
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
11:50 AM
This brief scene recently unfolded with my four-year old, Nathanael, who came to me with his arms raised, wanting to be picked up:
NATHANAEL: Daddy, I need you.
ME (after picking him up): What do you need, son?
NATHANAEL: Just you.
NATHANAEL: Daddy, I need you.
ME (after picking him up): What do you need, son?
NATHANAEL: Just you.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Children Who Love the Standard
Written by
William Chad Newsom
at
12:46 PM
What is the practical goal of parental discipline? Obviously, the Christian goal is children who love God, and live holy lives. But we set up a Standard of expected behavior for our kids: with respect to that Standard, what is our goal? Here’s the best answer I’ve heard:
“The goal is not to get children to conform to the standard: the goal is to get children to love the standard.”
Thus Doug Wilson, in more than one place, I believe (don’t have the source at hand). And I agree wholeheartedly. We want our children to love the Standard of goodness, truth, and beauty we set before them. When they do, we know we truly have their hearts. We know they are not just outwardly conforming, but inwardly seething (“just wait until I’m old enough to blow this place!”). It’s fairly easy to get kids to outwardly obey. It’s much harder to get them to love obedience, to love being good, for its own sake. The question of course is, “how do we accomplish this noble task?”
I wrestled long with this, agreeing with the principle, but somewhat uncertain how to put it into practice. Here then are some beginning thoughts towards this end.
“The goal is not to get children to conform to the standard: the goal is to get children to love the standard.”
Thus Doug Wilson, in more than one place, I believe (don’t have the source at hand). And I agree wholeheartedly. We want our children to love the Standard of goodness, truth, and beauty we set before them. When they do, we know we truly have their hearts. We know they are not just outwardly conforming, but inwardly seething (“just wait until I’m old enough to blow this place!”). It’s fairly easy to get kids to outwardly obey. It’s much harder to get them to love obedience, to love being good, for its own sake. The question of course is, “how do we accomplish this noble task?”
I wrestled long with this, agreeing with the principle, but somewhat uncertain how to put it into practice. Here then are some beginning thoughts towards this end.
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